When you think about your guy, do you see him as your best friend? When I told him I was thinking about going he said…. He was tired of me being that way so he gave up on making things right. Obviously, this is not going to happen overnight. Guys do get scared about commitment, but if they really are into a woman, they keep that fear to themselves or share it with their buds. But I still love him and hope that he will come back but Idk.
That he knew exactly how he felt for me. That defeats the purpose of contacting him. If you have things in your life you will be more desirable to him. And I recently just had him end a relationship of 1 year and like 9 months. Do not be fooled or judgemental by the simplicity and short content. Anyways, things blew over and he got mad at me.
You can for a big picture plan of what to do. Then one month about after a year, he began to draw back because he felt that I was not into him and that he would act the same w me. After that, he blocked me and deleted me off of all social media. He will drive you right into the dirt. I messaged him now-and-then with appreciative texts, to which he responded positively, but then would not continue the conversation. What does this mean for our relationship? If you are able to change the context, the content can change as well. It could be that even though he had broken up with you still somewhere in his heart he feels needy of the motherly feelings that you gave him in trouble times.
It sounds like he is dealing with confidence issues and doesn't feel like he is old enough nor has the resources to build the relationship he wants. I know we loved each other and I do regret getting involved with him while he was only separated even though from what he told me his marriage was over and they both wanted a divorce. Having these knowledge will help you tremendously when you are trying to get your ex back. My boyfriend and I had a 5 year age gap. He makes me really happy and we really bring out the best of each other.
I only dated this boy for 6 months but in they were enough to fall harder than ever. All of that was done completely on his own, his doing, not once did I ever ask him to do any of that. Actually we broke up just over a text. I wish I had never met this man and hope he doesn't go on to hurt anyone else. What you did is you put yourself beneath him, and created an imbalance of power. He was still with the other girl during which he told me he would fight with her a lot about it cause she didnt like that he wants to be there for me.
He told me that he understood if that was unacceptable to me, but that he hoped that I would wait for him and give him a little more time. Although I think that was more me than him. I love him, I supported him through some rough times — emotionally and financially, i was honest and loyal. The night before he was cuddling with me and telling me how much he loved me and all. You can do better, and you deserve better. We always had a great time together and really were the best of friends. We cut off all communications with each other kinda.
He started seeing a young girl then after a few months came to me crying that he missed me loved me and needed time. Every night he appears in my dream like the break up never happened. He said his life is not complete without me. On our 7th date, he told me that his parent had collapsed a few days before and was in hospital from an illness that was related to addiction. He called me at 430 in the morning to cry to me and vent.
After that, everything else is cake : this one hit the mark for me. Also that she still lived in his house but would be moving out. I was with this guy for 2 years now. He has cheated on me with his childhood sweetheart who is married. My other thought: yes, you will likely talk to each other down the road.